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Hi, I’m Dr. Leonard McGill, and I want to help you get the best sex of your life.

At the same time, I want to give you all the information you need in order to have the best relationships of your life.

! Welcome to Energy Sexuality !

I’m not a sex guru, but for the past three and a half years I’ve been traveling the world studying with the top sex and relationship gurus on the planet. People like Taoist Master Mantak Chia, author of “The Multi-Orgasmic Man,” in Chiang Mai, Thailand and David Deida, author of “The Way of the Superior Man,” at the Omega Institute in upstate New York.

Four years ago, I had no clue that sex and relationships could be spiritual, transcendent, and profoundly awesome. Since then, I’ve been on a mission to find out how anyone can create such experiences.

If you:

  • Are baffled by your lover’s behaviors at times to the point of wanting to drive a kitchen implement through their chest.
  • Find yourself wishing you were with someone more “perfect” for you.
  • Unable to express your deepest feelings to your lover.
  • Are in a relationship that’s more of a minefield than a “soft place to land” when the world beats you up.
  • Recognize the truth behind the country lyrics, “It’s hard to kiss the lips at night that chew your ass out every day”.
  • Think your man is incapable of cherishing you.
  • Feel like women don’t need to be cherished.
  • Don’t have tools like “conscious conversations” to implement when times get rough.
  • Can’t see the spirit in your lover when you look at him or her.

…then Energy Sexuality is for you!

If you’re a man, you’ll get all the information you need from the top sex and relationship gurus on the planet, to be the best lover your woman has ever had AND get all the love your ever wanted. You’ll learn how to make your woman happy and, in turn, your life will be so much easier.

If you’re a woman, you’ll get all the information you need to help your man cherish you and take care of you in bed like never before, and you’ll learn from other women how to turn your body into something that will give you more pleasure than you ever thought possible.

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How Did I Get Here?

Four years ago, my 20-year relationship fell apart in a tangle of hurt, mistrust, and confusion; I was lost. I went for months, waking at two or three o’clock in the morning from a nightmare, the kind where unseen forces are trying to kill you and your feet are stuck in cement.

Then, one day I was over at a friend’s house, moaning about how I was lonely and confused about women and sex.

“Here, you need to read this,” my friend said, going over to her bookshelf and pulling out an ordinary-looking volume. She thrust it in my hands. I took it home, and it was the first book I ever read from cover to cover in a single day. The book, David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” had the answers I was looking for, answers to questions I’d never known to ask. It was a how-to book on how to be a new kind of man.

Three weeks later, an e-mail from the Omega Institute found its way to my inbox. It announced that Deida was having a week-long intensive workshop at the upstate New York spiritual center. I knew I had to go, even though I’d never taken a week off from work for any kind of educational seminar.

David’s program opened up a whole new (and better) world for me.

Right now this is the hard cold fact about most relationships: the longer a couple is together, the more dissatisfied they are in their relationship.

In energy sexuality, couples find an ever-deepening sense of connection. Sex is outrageously stimulating and satisfying. Transcendental experiences—the kind you used to have to take drugs to experience–are common.

At Deida’s workshop, I was doing an exercise with a woman on Wednesday night in which my “assignment” was to “open” her heart without touching her. I had Dorothy lay down on an exercise mat in the large studio we were practicing in, and I took a yoga “plank” position over her, hovering inches from her chest.

Within a minute she started vibrating, experiencing full-body orgasms. She looked at me with happy surprise. We’ve been lovers ever since. She opened up a whole new world for me, and she still does every day.

Since the workshop, I’ve been an explorer of this new realm of sexuality. I hope you’ll join me and everyone else who is discovering that by becoming conscious of the energy underlying all of existence. By using it to fully develop ourselves in our relationships, sex and relationships can become better than you’ve ever imagined.

My Contact Information

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Dr. Leonard

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Disclaimer: This is my personal blog. The opinions I express are just that. Although I am a Doctor of Chiropractic, the information in this blog in no way is meant to reflect the opinions of those members of the Chiropractic profession. Neither am I a sex therapist nor psychotherapist. The information I provide is on an as-is basis. I make no representations as to accuracy, completeness, currentness, suitability, or validity of any information on this blog and will not be liable for any errors, omissions, or delays in this information or any losses, injuries, or damages arising from its use. You should always check with your primary care physician before trying any of the physical exercises and other techniques discussed in this blog.