Note: this is part of a continuing series that teaches men, the women who love them, and anyone else interested in developing their sexuality to the next level the art of vaginal massage. You can read part one through three of the series by clicking here: Mastering the art of vaginal massage…part one and part two, and part three. is the first nuts and bolts how-to guide for men and the women who love them on mastering the vast energy underlying all existence in order to experience the best sex of their lives. Instead of sex as sport, it’s sex as spiritual practice. Energy sexuality is often transcendental in nature and forms a spiritual connection between lovers.

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This is the last post on “setting the stage” for your vaginal massages. After this, hang on (or hand in?) because things are going to get interesting (and wet) soon. Here’s how to finish setting the stage…

Lastly, there’s the music. What to play? Like all the masterful touches you’ve used when setting the stage for her ecstatic journey, the music you fill your sacred space with should allow your lover to sink into pleasure as easily as chocolate syrup sinks through milk. Here are some classic “sex music” tracks:

* “Music To Disappear In” by Raphael and Kutira

* “Waves” by Gabrielle Roth

* “Opening To Love” by Robert Frey

* “Healing Touch” by Nadamas

* “Music for Tantric Sexuality” by Llewellyn

* “Tantric Heart” by Shastro

* “Flying Om” by Frank Natale.

Most have few, if any, words and a hypnotic rhythm and beat. They support your woman in escaping into the world of pleasure you’re creating. While these sex soundtracks are great, they aren’t for everyone, so if your woman grooves on high-energy rock or trance music, put together an awesome playlist for her. Does she get turned on easier when you two are out in nature? Try a soundtrack of ocean waves rolling to the shore and witness her expand into a feeling of being at one with nature.

One last “note” about music. If your woman has a particularly great time listening to a certain soundtrack, play the same piece each time you pleasure her pink treasure chest, at least for a while. Her nervous system will associate the music to orgasmic pleasure and just hearing the music will usher her into a blissful groove.

Next time: you’ve set the stage…Now let’s get those fingers wet! Until then, please write with any questions/comments! What music do you like to listen to when you massage your woman’s vagina?  

Blessings, Dr. Leonard 

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