Note…this is part of a continuing series teaching men, the women who love them, and anyone else interested in developing their sexuality to the next level the art of vaginal massage. See previous blogs, starting at The Vaginal Massage Playbook/Part One for any of the information you’ve missed up until this point.
In my last blog I started detailing an awesome “doggie style” vagainal massage technique, leaving off at the point that you turned your bottle of warm water-based lubricant down toward the bed and squeezed hard, “sending a stream of lubricant cascading down into her rear ravine, until the heated lube flows down over her vagina, soaking it”.
Here’s how to continue….
Liberally lubricate your right thumb. Position yourself on your knees so you’re above your lover’s left pelvis. Drape your left arm over her at the waistline, and pull her right hip toward you. Let her know she’s supported; she’s not going anywhere, so she can relax into your powerful prodding. (Illustration here.) Now poise your right thumb at the entrance to your lover’s vagina and gently slip your thumb in, letting it slide over the first third of her G-spot. Slowly and deliberately, start stroking her G-spot with the pad of your thumb every four or five strokes letting it sink in a little deeper. The shape of your thumb will allow you to easily massage her G-spot. Establish a steady rhythm, and then let your index and middle fingers begin to slide on either side of her clitoral head, so that your middle finger is rubbing her Butterfly Spot. Continue like this, keeping communication open, making mid-course corrections as necessary, until your lover sinks into an orgasm. Repeat, repeat, with variations in your strokes as necessary.
For women into hard and fast penetration (there are not as many of them as you might think), this position is perfect for plunging your thumb in and out in a piston-like rhythm: Squeeze her pelvis into you with your left arm to stabilize it and stroke hard and fast, the pad of your thumb pressing into her G-spot with every stroke.
Have you missed any of the blog posts on vaginal massage? If so…..
Next time: Variations of doggie style vaginal massage! Be sure to tune in! Until then, please write with any questions/comments.
Blessings,
Dr. Leonard