Note…this is part of a continuing series teaching men, the women who love them, and anyone else interested in developing their sexuality to the next level the art of vaginal massage. See previous blogs, starting at The Vaginal Massage Playbook/Part One for any of the information you’ve missed up until this point.
Up to now I’ve been detailing how to give an awesome vaginal massage. Now we’re going to get into some variations and other considerations for making you a master at this sexual skill. We’re going to start with how to dress your lover for a vaginal massage. Here goes:
As mentioned above, some women feel uncomfortable lying on a bed completely naked. And very few women don’t appreciate a special piece of lingerie. So why not buy her something particularly beautiful for these special sessions with you? The best choice is a “teddy” (go on-line to Fredrick’s of Hollywood or Adam and Eve and type “teddies” into the search box to see examples of this design). It’s a top that usually accentuates the breasts in some way, but only comes to the waistline, allowing you easy access to your woman’s vagina.
One style that works particularly well is a simple, loose design that ties around her neck, with a plunging neckline. The fabric covers her breasts, but can easily be moved out of the way (unlike the cups of a bra), when you want access to her chest. (Illustration here.) You’ll want to gift wrap it and give it to her before your first vaginal massage session. (Note: e-bay has a huge selection of new and used women’s lingerie, and they have a policy that all used lingerie must be thoroughly laundered or dry cleaned. I’ve purchased $80 Victoria’s Secret Bridal pieces in brand new condition for $8 on e-bay auctions.)
When you give her the box, stand up straight, breath into your belly, look into her eyes like she is a prize you’re are about to take and say:
“Put this on,” in your deepest, sexiest voice.
Why the drama? You’re using your masculinity to create an atmosphere where you’re in charge, allowing her to stop thinking and sink into a state where she can relax and enjoy herself. Her comfort is most important. So if the room is cool or she would just feel more comfortable, she can wear a sweater or sweatshirt. If her feet tend to get cold, buy her some nice soft, fluffy socks (nothing tight). You want her feeling comfortable and sexy. So if she’d feel more comfortable and sexy in your old sweatshirt and gym socks, great.