Hello everybody, ready to talk energy sexuality?
I’m still working on finishing the 6th part of my series on Lasting for 45 Minutes…look for it next week. But I just had to write today…I’m staying at Master Mantak Chia’s Tao Garden in Chiang Mai, Thailand. I’ll be here for the next month working at the Spa/Resort’s Clinic….
Had a fascinating lunch today with a young Dutch guy totally into energy sexuality, and wanted to give you a quick report. Here’s some of what he said:
” The big problem is very simple. Guys have to stop shaming women about their sexual desires. And women need to embrace their sexuality. I’m from Holland, where we’re pretty liberated compared to a lot of place, and we’re still fucked up around our sexuality. Men are acting like women. Women are acting like men, and there’s no polarity. Men need to start calling women sluts and mean it in a good way, and women need to glorify in their sexuality.”
“I usually stay away from the clitoris. It’s like a big red button and it’s easy to push it and get an orgasm. But the deeper orgasms come from deep inside the vagina. That’s where things get interesting.”
“I’ve been doing the squirting G-spot orgasm work for about a year, with several different girlfriends, and I can tell you it’s a wonderful way to open a woman up to pleasure. Sometimes when you first start the g-spot is numb or even painful. But if you keep massaging the g-spot it will get looser and juicier. It can take time, but it’s worth it, because after that the woman is much more open to great sex. It’s not like it’s the greatest thing, but it’s pretty fucking good, and can be really sexy.”
“To me the g-spot work is just the beginning. Once you open that up, the real energy is in the cervical orgasms. I’ve been practicing withholding me ejaculations for awhile, but let me tell you, when I’m fucking a woman and she has a cervical orgasm it’s almost impossible for me not to come.”
“When you work with opening the cervix to pleasure, the best thing is to use your cock as a “de-armoring” tool. What I mean is that you often the first time you try to massage the cervix, either using your hands or your cock, it will be very painful. So here’s what to do. If you touch it and it’s painful, just hold your finger or your cock on it and have the woman take deep breaths in and out, and you breath with her. It’s just like if you were getting a tight muscle in your arm worked on. You just keep breathing through the pain until it goes from a 10 down to about a 2 or 3, and then you back off and press in again. It usually takes several sessions before pressuring the cervix becomes pleasurable, but then, wow, it opens up a whole new world.”
“The best position to de-armor the cervix with your cock is to have the woman on her back, with her knees up over your shoulders. This will allow you to have the greatest penetration. Once pressure on the cervix becomes pleasurable, many women like you to really pound the cervix with the head of your cock. It’s like they do an about face, where before it was painful and now it’s like they want it pressed hard.”
“In my experience a woman’s capacity for pleasure is limitless.”
I’ll be sharing more talks with energy sexuality practitioners in the coming weeks…
Blessings,
Dr. Leonard